Signs & Behaviours of Parental Alienation
Parental Alienation (PA) can be difficult to identify because it often looks like ordinary parent–child conflict.
The difference is that in PA, a child’s rejection of one parent is disproportionate or unjustified, often linked to the influence of the other parent rather than the targeted parent’s behaviour.
This page explains the common behaviours of alienating parents and the signs in children that may suggest alienation is occurring.
Behaviours of an Alienating Parent
Parents may not always be aware that their actions are harmful. However, certain patterns can contribute to alienation:
- Badmouthing: Making negative, exaggerated, or untrue comments about the other parent in front of the child.
- Withholding Contact: Creating obstacles to visitation, calls, or communication.
- Adultification: Sharing adult disputes (e.g., financial or legal details) with the child.
- Forcing Loyalty Conflicts: Making the child feel guilty for showing affection to the other parent.
- False Narratives: Rewriting history to make the other parent appear unreliable or unsafe.
- “All Good / All Bad” Framing: Presenting themselves as the only “good parent” and the other as harmful.
Signs in Childre
Children influenced by alienating behaviours may begin to show certain patterns:
- Unjustified Hostility: Strong anger or fear toward one parent that doesn’t match real experiences.
- Borrowed Phrases: Using “adult language” or repeating phrases clearly learned from the alienating parent.
- Lack of Ambivalence: Seeing one parent as all good and the other as all bad (healthy children usually see both strengths and weaknesses).
- Absence of Guilt: Showing no empathy for rejecting the targeted parent.
- Automatic Alignment: Always siding with the alienating parent in disputes.
- Rejection of Extended Family: Refusing contact with grandparents, cousins, or friends linked to the targeted parent.
Why These Signs Matter
Identifying alienating behaviours early can:
Help prevent long-term psychological harm to children. It can support healthier co-parenting strategies early on and can give family courts and professionals clearer insights when making decisions in the best interests of the child.
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